So, it's been a bit of a crazy week....
So, a very good friend of mine just found out she was pregnant last week... well, she had a miscarriage on saturday. It was a very sad situation, but she's dealing pretty well considering she has a very fundamental unsupportive christian husband. Nothing against christianity, it's just not my thing. He is oppressing her in every way and it's so sad. So enough of that back story, he hasn't hardly comforted her at all and it's so sad. So, I picked up one of her shifts this week so she could recover a bit. I really wish I could just take her and show her that she's allowed to have individual thoughts and she has the human right to happiness. I get so depressed when I think about how sad her life is... and I'm not just assuming this, anyone who knows anything about psychology and body language knows how she feels... When she talks about her home life and relationship she OBVIOUSLY wants to say more but is so submissive even when she's not around her husband that she won't say it with words, but she doesn't have to use words... I can just tell. Anyway... I just wanted to share that....
Lili




I'm sorry to hear that about your friend. My cousin just called me last night to say that his wife last thier baby. She was 5 1/2 months along. They don't really have a faith so I feel somewhat obligated to do something extra for them. I lit a candle and said a prayer. I know all I can do is be here for them. I will include your friend as well. As far as her life goes, my sister-in-law as this nack for marrying control freak losers, she's on the third one. After we all "helped her" through the first one and then the second one. I've kinda given up on her but if she calls me she knows I'm here for her. I just can't get "too deep" into her life, its stressful and ends up creating alot of negetivity all around. I made my s-i-l a mojo bag for protection and assertiveness. She thinks it's just a potpori for her underware drawer, maybe that would help her but not cause alarm with her husband.
Luna03:06 PM EST